{"product_id":"9788412964165","title":"How to control your toxic partner","description":"\u003ch2\u003eHow to Control Your Toxic Partner\u003c\/h2\u003e\n\n\u003ch3\u003eBook Summary\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eIn a hyper-connected world, technological dependence has become a symptom of unhealthy relationships. This brief and direct essay invites the reader to an uncomfortable but necessary reflection: the need to control our partner via mobile phone or computer is nothing more than a reflection of our own digital trap. Mariano Rodoreda dismantles the mechanisms of modern toxicity, offering a guide to recognizing patterns of dependence and regaining personal balance before attempting to control the other person.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003ch3\u003eWhat is it about?\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThe book starts with a provocative premise: the urge to check a partner's phone, to monitor their schedule, or to feel anxiety when they do not reply instantly is, in reality, a symptom of a deeper addiction. Through critical analysis, the work explores how technology has become a battlefield where insecurities and desires for possession are projected. Rodoreda does not offer manipulation tricks; instead, he exposes the paradox of those who want to control and end up being controlled by their own fear and the device in their hand. The text invites us to look inward, to identify the void that drives us to watch the other person, and to understand that true freedom begins when we stop seeking power outside of ourselves.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003ch3\u003eMain Themes\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\n\u003cli\u003eTechnological dependence and mobile phone addiction in romantic relationships.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\n\u003cli\u003eMechanisms of control and surveillance in the digital age.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\n\u003cli\u003eThe control paradox: how the attempt to dominate another enslaves us.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\n\u003cli\u003ePersonal insecurity and the projection of fears onto a partner.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\n\u003cli\u003eThe role of technology as an amplifier of toxic dynamics.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\n\u003ch3\u003eWho is it recommended for?\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eFor anyone who feels the constant need to check their partner's phone or who experiences anxiety when they haven't heard from them. Also for those who, without living that dependency, want to better understand the control dynamics that technology facilitates in affective relationships. It is an especially useful read for those seeking a critical and reflective approach, far from conventional self-help manuals.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003ch3\u003eWhat this book offers\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\n\u003cli\u003eAn awareness of one's own patterns of control and digital dependence.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\n\u003cli\u003eTools to identify toxicity, not in the other, but in our own relationship with technology.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\n\u003cli\u003eA critical perspective that dismantles the false sense of security provided by control.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\n\u003cli\u003eA path toward emotional autonomy, moving away from seeking validation through the surveillance of others.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\n\u003cli\u003eA brief but incisive read, ideal for deep reflection in a short amount of time.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\n\u003ch3\u003eTechnical Specifications\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\n\u003cli\u003eAuthor: Rodoreda, Mariano\u003c\/li\u003e\n\n\u003cli\u003ePublisher: Ediciones Torre de Lis\u003c\/li\u003e\n\n\u003cli\u003eLanguage: Spanish\u003c\/li\u003e\n\n\u003cli\u003eSubject: CURRENT AFFAIRS ESSAY, LITERARY ESSAYS, COMPUTER SCIENCE: GENERAL ISSUES\u003c\/li\u003e\n\n\u003cli\u003eCollection: APERTUM\u003c\/li\u003e\n\n\u003cli\u003eBinding: Paperback\u003c\/li\u003e\n\n\u003cli\u003ePublication Date: September 2025\u003c\/li\u003e\n\n\u003cli\u003eNumber of pages: 104\u003c\/li\u003e\n\n\u003cli\u003eWeight: 200 g\u003c\/li\u003e\n\n\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\n\u003ch3\u003eEditorial Review\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eAn essay that dares to face an uncomfortable reality: the control we exert over our partner through technology says more about us than it does about them. With a direct and uncompromising tone, Rodoreda manages to make the reader question their own certainties. It is a book that does not provide easy answers, but rather opens up necessary questions for anyone who wants to escape the trap of digital surveillance and build more free and conscious relationships.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"EDICIONES TORRE DE LIS","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":53406804640091,"sku":"9788412964165","price":13.95,"currency_code":"EUR","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/1018\/0650\/6331\/files\/978841296416.jpg?v=1781841624","url":"https:\/\/kalamobooks.com\/en\/products\/9788412964165","provider":"Kalamo Books","version":"1.0","type":"link"}